Kwan Usamanee admits is wrong to date a guy elders disapproved
After “Gold Pichaya” crying about his breakup with Kwan and implying that she cheats on him with a richer old man because her mom is a money hungry predator. “Kwan Usamanee” as the good filial daughter of a mother who trashes her in the past comes out to protect her mom and reveals the reason why she broke up with Golf. Her life sounds just like a nang’ek in a Thai drama. A very “nam nam” or “melodrama”.
This is what she says at her press conference.
I want to thank for waiting and giving me this opportunity to speak. I never frame anyone no matter when I’m wrong or right. This is one of those time as well. I decided to walk away from his life and he is the one who is unclear with the fans that makes me feel uncomfortable. This is the end. I don’t want to choose my fan club. I decided not to say anything and have this end quietly from the beginning till now. If I said it out loud, some things are beautiful but for me to walk away isn’t a good thing.
There is a lot of things that make me decided to walk away from him and his family. It’s not like ending a relationship is going to end easily. I have been trying to walk away for a while now. As for him saying love is money. I don’t know what he is thinking but for me love is a beautiful thing or else I would never dare to get back with him. I am wrong that I don’t believe the elders. I am wrong that I believe in love too much. If I believe elders who experienced this before, I wouldn’t be this hurt. I feel like it was a nuclear bomb that hit me.
I thought that he would be my last, that’s why I took him to my family in Petchaburi. The wedding idea was not from my mom but from my uncle. That was one of the thing my family ask for. We never talked about the dowry other than my mom’s jokes. I don’t think it is a thing for the woman side to think about the price because no matter how much can’t buy you.
(Tears in throat) I chose not to speak in the beginning because I don’t want to hurt any family. I’ve done my part as a girlfriend the best I could.
Today, I would like to come out as a daughter. I have my own dignity. But the situation here is that when I went to talk with his mother, the mother of a man that I want to leave my life with told me that she has no dowry for me unless she is dead that we can inherit it. If my mom doesn’t allow me to marry, then I should get pregnant first.
As for the diamond ring, she said if we can’t get married, we can get engage. Just take a fake ring for my mom to look at. Your mom wouldn’t know that it is fake since she is using a fake bag.
I don’t care if it is fake but I can’t lie to my birth mother. I don’t want my child to grow up as a game for someone. I want them to born out of love. No one knew about this before, even my mom. Golf was there at that time. But I think that the elders want to make sure that getting engage is the best solution. I am a woman that wants to sincerely get married.
The saddest thing for me is the one I love doesn’t know how to respect women. I ask him back since he has a sister. He told me he still wants me to get pregnant before marriage. Sure, I want to have children but I want to get married in the purest way and in the right traditional way. This was the main reason I decided to walk away from him and his family.
For him to talk about my mom and a third party Pe’James (Lord James). I knew him since I was in university from friends. I am in the entertainment for a long time I have many group of friends. For him to say that my mom wants the rich man for me is a lie. I introduced him to my mom and we never have that intimate relationship. I wouldn’t dare post his pictures if we did. We get along and he has always been one that I seek advice from.
For Pe’Golf to cap pictures and create ideas does not do justice for the other people. The other people has never been in this game and is not one of the reason that is able to make me leave. People around me have never wanted anything to do with Pe’Golf for a long time now. The reason was I don’t get to see my friends when I dated him. I think we can tell what is the truth. We can choose to protect or hurt the one we love. We live half of our life already so we don’t need to be teach about this other than encourage one another. I can’t do that. I have to take care of the family I neglected.
I made the wrong decision getting back with him. I don’t regret the time because he will always be in my heart (tears in throat). He deleted our pictures in instagram. We have a lot of bad things but I always try to make the best out of it. If he is sad and hurt, he shouldn’t be able to have a smile on his face ever since his trip to Switzerland. Love is about the heart, not a game who wins and lose. As for him saying, this situation is a repeat of the pain 10 years ago, I don’t think so. There might be some woman who is able to live with his family but I wouldn’t be able to live with his family. I was born with pure love from my parents so I don’t want to use my kids as a game.
Pe’Gold knows the reason why we broke up. But there is a lot of things like Pe’Golf releasing my pictures with a third-hand. I am confident, I will show you. As for the business, we never invest together. It was all my money. If Pe’Golf is watching this, I don’t have anything to say. Thank you everyone.
Translated Article: Sanook | January 23, 2018
SOME MORE UPDATE
Golf apologize after Kwan’s press conference. The damage is already done though. He came out first and basically trashes her. She can only defend herself. He said not everything happens the way Kwan said it and that he thought she got over that conversation. This guy is dumb, women never forget things. LOL