Pong Nawat smirks while calling Kaew Jarinya immature and insecure
After “Kaew Jarinya” came out and broke into tears in front of the media, revealing that she’s distant from senior actor “Pong Nawat” for the reason being that the male party has gone missing for months now, this got “Pong” all heated that he made an appointment with media to hold a press conference at the GMM building.
I didn’t go missing. That day I watched the interview, she said I went missing, to the point of months I heard. She said that we fought and the both of us became distant and never talked so became even more distant. People went and said to her you broke up already? This and that, and Nong probably believe like a woman’s style to believe. Many other things, honestly we fight like we normally do. Most recently, we did talk on line. She was quite angry with me for various things I did. You can say she was really furious. After that we did talk, she had the mood of we broke up already? So I said that I didn’t say anything in detail because that would make it boring. Some of it is true, some is not, but she probably believes it. And because it’s me, makes it even more believable. Instead of coming back to talk and clear it out, it turned into an issue of her bashing on me on a new issue, I’m sick and tired of it. This is the complete truth, I’m not hiding anything. I haven’t talked and become distant just like she claims. As of now we haven’t talked in over a month. We didn’t discuss that we’re breaking up, but the actions alone prove that we’re done. And most recently she’s quite furious with me. Maybe I’m not a good boyfriend, that’s why I make her mad. Some of the stuff I did do, some things I didn’t. About the news with Nong Sassy, we meet each other through events, we say our hellos and greet each other like normal. But it’s nothing. We’re not dating, we’re not boyfriend and girlfriend. As for her (Sassy) posting up a message making reference that ‘if you don’t love me, why didn’t you say so?’ people linked that to me. It’s unrelated to me. I don’t have her facebook, wherever she posted that comment I don’t know either, I don’t talk to her. She’s only someone I know, therefore I have nothing to say about her. I’m definitely not involved with her. As for rumours with other girls, I encounter this often, so I understand Kaew.
Is it because you’re unfaithful?
Honestly I’ve been in this industry for over a decade, I’ve never opened about on who I’m dating. I never had a girlfriend. Even when I did, no one else knew until it came to Kaew. In this lifetime she’s the one I’m most serious with. I’ve never been like this with anyone else. But because of my character and personality, I look like a player that’s why it makes it hard for her to trust me. So when I’m hit with news, some true and some not, she probably believe all of it to be true, that’s understandable. Also she’s still young, so her self confidence is low making it difficult for our relationship to survive. I am upset that we’ve been dating for 2 years, seeing each other almost everyday and constantly talking. I regret that we can’t survive. As if we will reconcile, that would be up to the future to decide. We would have to discuss and come to a better understanding because if we’re dating and we fight, it’s too much. Honestly I tried to make adjustments and she tried to make adjustments. Before she was an even worse spoiled child. The word boyfriend/girlfriend is two people who like each other, date each other, pleased with one another so they date each other. It does not mean marriage at all. The word boyfriend/girlfriend means to study and learn of each other, if we go well together then it would reach marriage. If it doesn’t work out then we break up. It’s a period of studying and getting to know one another. To be truthfully honest, I can’t give and do what a girlfriend would wants from a boyfriend. Her wants and needs are not more than any other girlfriends’ demands, but her demands are the demands of a 20-21 year old child…and I’m can’t do it. I still have friends, I still have female friends. The word “female friends”, a child over the age of 25 would understand it really does mean friends. Yet Kaew doesn’t understand this at all. If I’m talking to a girl, she’d say “you’re courting her? You’re getting involved with her?” Also it being me also makes the situation even more untrustworthy. What she’s mad about, I understand. The reason we’re not reconciling isn’t because I’m dissatisfied with the events that occurred, but because I’m not that great of a boyfriend. But in my opinion, this is the best I can do already…I’ve never been this open about any of my relationships before or any more devoted than this. But it’s probably a criteria of girlfriends in general. If it were a girl that really understands she might be able to accept me and my work. But any ordinary girl in general probably can’t accept…people who have boyfriends want their boyfriends to take care of them.
Kaew has always maintained that the news have no influence on the relationship
Sometimes the people who comment, the people who come interview me, the people who come bash me they don’t know what’s really going on behind closed doors. What she’s mad about we already fought over it. I understand her and try to put my feet in her shoes, assuming that I’m a girl. But really the news, some of it is so nonsense that I go huy…we shouldn’t even fight over this. But some of the news is true, so I just think it’s my bad fortune (that it landed in the news). There is always the two possibilities. It’s been like this the whole time, when things are going well, we’re good, when it’s not going well, I’m sick and tired of it too. What I’ve always said to her, if we date, we need to bring success and prosperity to each other, enhance each other. Our responsibilities with work has to be good, everything has to be good. Our health and well being has to all be good, not date each other and bring each other to a downfall, that’s no good. Like for instance her childish temperament, most boyfriends would be able to accept it, or understand it. It could be me, because like I said I don’t like drama, I don’t like to fight much. I would take a step back and try to keep it cool, before it becomes a disadvantage to both parties. We would have to clear things right? I learned my lesson from the beginning that if we fight the house would break every time. Asked if this accumulated to the point it plays a role? Yes it does, because I’m an adult now, I don’t have a childish temperament with drama to talk then sulk and chase after her to make up. I’m way past that age. I’m not criticizing her for being that way, she’s not wrong, it’s her age to be that way. Also my history isn’t that great, and the girls thing too. Since I started dating her, I don’t think I ever went and got involved with anyone else. The news says that I’m chatting with this person or that person like any other male would, when she finds out she’s mad sometimes. We’ll reconcile then break up like we normally do. But when we break up, it’s unrelated to a 3rd party. Other people are meaningless to me, the only person who means anything is Kaew. I’m not trying to sound cool, but people when we break up it’s only normal we miss each other too. More than to make news with someone else, that’s nonsense, the hi-so model. I’m not in the mood or have the heart to think that way, after a breakup I need a break. Don’t come yet. I think that every man, even the Casanova ones are hurt after a breakup, we’re going to be bored as it is.
Do you think that this time you’re most devoted yet it turned out this way?
I’m over 30 now, and I think our happiness isn’t the same as everyone else’s. Some people think that getting married and having a family is so warm and comforting. Some people like to travel, like to go here and there. Some people like their own male gender. Therefore everyone’s happiness is not the same. I want to find my own happiness. If I’m not ready, or I’m not taking good care of Kaew, it’s only fair to let her go. If I were to hold onto her with love but still behave terribly it’s not fair to her. I have to search myself and ask what do I want? Want friends, want to travel, or want women, something along those lines. Or I could be dying alone, that’s possible too. I look at P’Tang Saksid and he’s not married. Personally I’m talking constantly to P’Mos Pattiparn and he married with Game at the age of 38. So personally I have lots of time left. I don’t want to put pressure on myself that I have to get married because I’m old now and won’t be able to have kids right? I want to get married because I want to be with this or that particular person. With Kaew I want to be with her, but if I have to go against and change so much of myself then we can’t be together.
After this, when you’re in a new relationship, will you be more private because it looks like making it public didn’t work for you?
No. Honestly, today I’m very impressed because usually I don’t call the reporters for a conference, usually I don’t want to talk. This time I want to talk, and everyone that came made me feel good. Asked if I’m uncomfortable? Since the beginning from the problem I haven’t said anything. I read the news on the internet, read the comments on instagram and everyone is bashing me. Escaping? Why am I not saying anything? I’m not trying to escape anything but I don’t have any events I’m attending, the political state is not normal, events I don’t have. I don’t know what to say. I’m not avoiding as it is. I talked to the PR and decided on what’s good? We should say something now. Else people are going to misunderstand and think I have someone new that’s why I went missing. That’s not the case, I want to tell my side of the story too. I thought let’s just wait a bit. I want Nong to understand also. Sometimes she doesn’t want to talk to me, instead read my interview…I’m sorry that I wasn’t doing good things when we were dating. I wasn’t a good boyfriend by general standards.
Source: Rakdara | December 25, 2013